Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive. The world needs more of it.

Elders center their lives on children because they care about them. However, they focus on their behaviors.

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

Adults cannot identify that kids are hurting. They distract themselves from their feelings, impressions, thoughts, and fears. So, grownups should know the psychological states and emotions of tiny tots.

There are quite some reasons why Parents failed to understand.

Parents cannot Comprehend Toddler’s Feelings

Parents cannot understand children’s emotions because of age differences, the high expectations they have of their children, and kids’ unfamiliar activities.

Toddlers want to have fun, play video games, and attend classmates’ birthday parties.

However, adults give food, shelter, clothes, and education to little ones.

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

Responsibilities forbid them from being carefree.

Munchkins are protective of their munchkins and want to guide them in the right direction while they experience new things like studying new subjects.

They want to protect them when they make friends. Fathers want a child to study well and have good jobs.

Therefore, discipline with a non-serious kid is justified as education is the key to success

Bringing Up Stable Generations

Setbacks are inevitable. A toddler should stay mentally strong, resilient, and prepared to take on the real world.

He should not worry about jobs, money, and the right choices. Helping a little one build mental muscle needs elders to become mentally strong.

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

They should watch a munchkin struggle, hold them accountable for their mistakes, and push them to face their fears.  //Parents failed to understand

These tough experiences help children reach their greatest potential. Grownups should train their kids’ brains for happy, successful, and meaningful lives.

So mentally strong elders should avoid the following things to raise a stable and healthy child

1. Condoning Victims Mentally

Getting out of the football team does not make munchkins a victim.

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

Failure and unfairness are parts of life. Rather than allowing little ones to exaggerate misfortune parents should encourage children to identify ways to take positive action.

Kids should host pity parties despite their pity parties. Caretakers should help them turn their struggles into strengths.

2. Parenting Out of Guilt

Guilty feelings lead to many unhealthy parenting strategies like overindulging munchkins on the holidays or giving into them after saying no.

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

Elders should realize that guilt is uncomfortable but it is tolerable. They should refuse to let their guilty feelings in the ways of making wise choices.

3. Little Ones Aren’t the Universe’s Center

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

It is tempting to make lives revolve around a child.

However, if he thinks that he is the center of the universe, he grows up to become self-absorbed.

Mothers should teach him not to focus on what he is owed but what he has to offer the world. 

Fear Dictating Choices

Keeping a child inside protective bubbles spares a lot of anxiety.

However, keeping them too safe stunts their development. Fathers should view themselves not as protectors but guides.

They should allow her to experience life and go out into the world, even when it is scary to let go. 

Confusing Discipline With Pain

Discipline teaches a little one doing better in the future. Punishments make them suffer for their mistakes. Fathers can give out consequences.

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

However, the goal should remain to teach them developing self-discipline and make better choices down the road.

Overpowering Munchkins

Toddlers who dictate what the family is going to eat have too much power.

Becoming the boss or equals is not healthy for them. Caretakers should maintain a clear hierarchy and empower little ones to maintain appropriate choices. 

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Expecting Perfection

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

Expectations are healthy.

However, expecting perfection from children backfires. Parents should recognize that kids are not going to excel at everything they do.

So, they should focus on helping them become the best versions of themselves. They should not push them to become better than everyone else

Responsible Toddlers

Elders should not say, “I do not want to burden little ones with chores.”

They should teach them the skills needed to become responsible citizens and pitch in.

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

They must assign them age-appropriate duties and proactively guide them to take responsibility for their choices. 

Shielding From Pain

It is tough to watch munchkins struggle with anxiety or hurt. However, they need first-hand experience and practice tolerating discomfort.

Adults should support their coping with pain. Hence, he can gain confidence in his abilities with what hardships life throws his way. 

Regulating Feelings

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

It is tempting to calm her when she is angry or cheer her up when she is sad.

However, regulating a child’s emotions for him prevents him from gaining emotional and social skills.

Parents should teach a kid to take responsibility for her emotions. Therefore, she does not depend on others to do it for her.

Make Mistakes

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

A toddler can forget to pack pens for creative-writing classes or get a few questions wrong on math homework.

Mistakes are the greatest teacher in life.

Mothers should allow a munchkin to face the natural consequences of their actions. They should let them mess up. 

Taking Shortcuts

Doing children’s chores for them is easy.

However, those shortcuts teach kids unhealthy habits. So, one should avoid them and tolerate discomfort.

Today’s Exhausted Generation

Today’s generation is emotionally drained or mentally exhausted because of the following reasons:

Depending on Parents

Adults hover nearby so that nothing goes wrong. Grownups tell munchkins that they are special but they become dependent on them.

Therefore, they do not learn using failures to avoid future mistakes and growing up. My class-fellow could not drive in his 20’s and panicked if he had to.

Empower your kids. Let your younger ones be emotional and expressive; the world needs more of it.

Comparison

My cousin’s parents compared his school performances with other kids.

They pressured him to excel at studies or any other thing. This is the worst one can do with their child.

Fearing Stigmas

My friend experienced emotional trauma when her father died.

However, her mother did not take her to a therapist. She feared that society would label her mentally unstable.

We do not intend to disrespect an elder’s ways to bring tiny tots up.

Their support is important. However, it is significant that everyone teaches toddlers to put lives into perspectives, mental, and emotional stability.

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Staff Writer: Sumayya Ali

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Abdullah Iftikhar
3 months ago

Nicely written ❤️❤️❤️

3 months ago

Abdullah Iftikhar 🙏 for appreciation.

kanzazubair
3 months ago

good work

3 months ago
Reply to  kanzazubair

KanzaZubair 🙏 your appreciation means a lot

Annum
3 months ago

Sumayya Ali, dear you have summed up all words in a crafty way. We need to rethink and analyze all factors to make our generations emotionally strong and confident. Keep writing 👍

3 months ago
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Annum SHabbir 🙏 for Commenting. In Sha Allah I will keep writing. Yes if a single person thinks seriously about making children strong emotionally after reading this, I would believe that my purpose of writing this article is surved. Thank you for your support always ❤️